Meeting people where they are
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I love this article - it speaks right to where I am working right now...in fact it feels like the ray that is most commonly apparent for me. I had a dream a few days ago that really stuck with me of a bridge and I am holding onto these two cables and climbing up and over ...people are falling off every which way and I just keep on going. I reach a point where there is a knot in the cables and a man in front of me so I can't keep going, I have to work with this knot and be patient with this man in front of me, who is also going over the bridge, but with less awareness - he could go either way, stay on or fall off because he's not really aware that he is on a bridge at all. I am aware at that time of the song "Rainbow Connection" (by Kermit the Frog =)). This article and that dream speak volumes to me on what I am working with - this bridge and attuning to the full spectrum of the soul ray frequencies (the rainbow connection). Presently, I am being asked within my relationship to lighten up a bit, to not keep driving through...I have had a tendency within the relationship to keep probing deeper into what is real for my partnern (and for me), what this or that in his life feels like for him, what it is showing him etc and he is clearly stating that he is not sure if this path is for him or not...sometimes he just wants to believe the matrix is all there is and he doesn't want to "be invited into his feelings" as he puts it =). I feel for now I am working with a greater degree of sensitivity to what someone is open to...still penetrating through but also holding more space for them to be just how they are right now and still find a way to express authentically as well. I am seeing that I can come across as very intense and serious, looking at and feeling for the deeper meaning all the time and at times have a hard time engaging with others on the surface or even allowing a lighter sense of joy to inspire a more playful aspect of my beingness. It also seems that I just keep getting lesson over and over that I don't need to say everything that I hear or see happening for someone,(and might I add that it's as much for me to see something about myself and how I am being). I can contain that and engage where that person is inviting moment to moment - seeing what is for me and not needing to explore it with the person. Thank you for bringing this awesome article up today - it's incredibly illuminating for me!!! WIth love, Jen
