I am a bit shocked at the synchronicity of this article. I find myself feeling that all that is within me is a black desert of nothingness and I have not been ok with that. It is the feeling of connection that I crave and it is in not feeling it a certain way that causes tightness and inability to be in the moment as it is. It's on multiple levels this craving for connection...it's a feeling that I am attached to. Great article... Will keep staying with it and unraveling the attachment to it being different.