Thank you for that article. I hadn't read that one previously. The tantric approaches I used just came to me intuitively and it was as if my partner and I were united as one. I felt that unity consciousness. We did a few exercises that are non-sexual but connecting with eye gazing and touch. It was a deep healing. I'm lucky my partner who I wouldn't call really spiritual is very open to this. It shifted his energy (he probably doesn't even notice but I do). It shifted our energy, we become softer, more connected, more loving. It's a beautiful unfolding for healing the divine masculine in both of us and de-armoring.