I think what happens is that people see polarity in things around them - 'this' and 'that', 'him' and 'her'. And because the majority then conform to that polarity, it seems the done thing to do, and so they then accept all manner of unconscious conditioning as a result.

I am in male form. And there are countless aspects of that which I harness, enjoy and express. And I admire the divinely female form too. I especially honour that which appears different from me - it's what I cherish most, for it is often a reflection of that which is not incarnate in me - my Twin Flame. But I work not to be lulled into unconsciousness about the 'polarity'. Because the soul itself is not such a simple yin/yang dynamic. In the Openhand philosophy, the soul is a blend of (at least) 7 rays of consciousness - 7 qualities of being. And they blend together to form an harmonic - similar to a chord on a guitar.

When properly tuned, each harmonic in each person is totally unique, irrespective of the artificial classification of 'gender'. The challenge - and the opportunity - is to unleash the fullness of expression of all these qualities. I believe that's when true harmony, joy and fulfillment is found in life.

So you may present in female form, because a particular combination of your rays - in this incarnation - temporarily fits within that vehicle of expression. But even though your body is male or female shouldn't ultimately limit freedom of expression through all the frequnecies of your harmonic. Sometimes I feel sensitive, diplomatic and surrendering, at others I feel like the shiva too! And none of it is constrained by the physical. That's merely how I present in this physical density.

I've met many souls who may appear gentle and soft in the physical, yet who are raging catalysts in the higher densities (where it's all shaped from anyway!).

So I love and enjoy the male aspect of me, and the female aspect in my partner too. But I would be severely limiting myself if I allowed that 'box' to constrain the fullness of which I am capable.

Blessings to all you colourful, liberated and wonderful beings!

I see you.

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