Hello Eddie, I appreciate your suggestion and yes this is something we are exploring with of course the constant exploration with him of how to work with the intensity with which he responds to that which bothers him... He's very sensitive and can also feel and build a lot of tension....working with it all as best as I am able ... While working with what it causes within me/what within is helping to create it/what it is reflecting. This exploration for me is about the tension of distorted aspects of masculine and feminine and coming into aligned ways of expressing these energies in their fullness. Much love, Jen