Yes, thank you Erica,
As much as we always feel misfits, it's still just an identity to expand beyond. The same way as it is important to step beyond the socially prescribed statuses, inside or out. It's a hard step to come to terms with one's "misfitness" in life, hence the importance of a supporting community, of course. And: it's a humbling step when the sense of being different from others falls. To me this is the call of the dark light of cosmic unity. But any way of putting it is as good as the other.
Your wording here I liked very much and I'm nodding here in support.
Love,
Reka