Thanks for your input folks. Oliver, I'm not so concerend about making a mistake as wondering about what I don't know....I'm always seeking out those blind spots and while I feel a strong pull to disengage from this person, and I have, I still wonder if I'm just playing out old patterns....so lots of great questions for me to explore. The need to repair the relationship is the question. Great questions you've posed....is it soul to soul engagement or identity to identity? Well said to make a choice now is right for now...we're on a path.
If I seek to repair it will be because I am feeling the compassion you spoke of Open....I am drawn to not "give up" on this soul...because they push my buttons and I get judgemental of their life choices that hurt me and others... Open, I love the direction of exploring my attachment to what the other is experiencing. Also it's not my job to self-realise for someone..stepping forward in pure beingness as the One...I supsect there would not be these mental gymnastics I'm engaged in right now haha.. Often in every day life it's easier to not take the time to feel into right action and I get lost in the doubting of my own path. Cynthia, thank you for those words. Sychronistically letting go of the shore keeps turning up in my life...grateful...love xo