Hi jenny,

Seems like you're having your own great self-realisation discussion!

Yes house and car often represent our bodymind vehicles and what's going on in them. So clearly the boundary issue is bleeding energy.

For me it's about understanding the nature of relativity. Often people confuse relative and absolute truth. So they'll feel the absoluteness of the source as themselves. But then as this feeds down into a relativistic, separated experience - as the soul - they'll be a trying to mimic that sense of total oneness.

This can be felt, very close to the source, as the finest layers of unity. But if we try to perceive that within another, in the depths of their density, then we'll harmonise with their density and bleed energy through it.

So if you want to experience the oneness with absolutely minimal barrier - you have to go much 'higher'. It's more easily done through nature for example because other creatures mostly have no separated agenda. But when connecting with another human, where the soul is not fully self-realised, then internal discernment is necessary - it is where we need to feel and maintain a healthy boundary. At least that is, if we're not going to get pulled down into their stuff!

Open