Hi Cldstone!

I can relate with your experiences with your children - I have three 10 and under and for sure they are my constant teachers/mirrors!

I wanted to comment to you about how you see your children express anger - it really is amazing to see them move through it especially when their anger or frustration does not meet with resistance from a parent - that's awesome that you are able to witness it and allow it to flow. There is a great book called "Playing in the Unified Field" and she talks about how parents very rarely will mirror back to a child anger (I see you are feeling upset or angry etc)...instead they will try to change it/make it better and essentially give the message of it not being ok to express anger/frustration etc.

Thank you for sharing...it illuminated much for me too!! Funny I noticed we posted around the same time and quoted the same line! =)
Jenny