Greetings Daffodil,

I would say the important thing to realise is that a catalyst activates a feeling in you. And because they're often very strong and defining in their own energy, it's easy for a more empathic person to lose themselves in that energy - to think the love is for them. The crucial thing to realise is that it's activating a love of a reflection that is in you. So work to embody that - see the reflection but feel it in yourself. Then whether that actually plays out in the external or not can happen of its own accord with less attachment to how it goes.

Wishing you well

Open 🙏